Dating in the 21st century is a whole new world. And in a lot of ways, it's not a good thing. There are some perks to the new age dating era though. The brutal honesty coming from women in their dating experiences is most certainly a perk. Look, sometimes your date just flat out sucks. It's okay for you to feel that way. Not everyone is going to be able to make your lady parts tingle with their wit and intellect. Some might not even be able to make your lady parts tingle at all. On any front.